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ninjabirdy



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2017 4:11 pm    Post subject: I can relate  Reply with quote

I am struggling myself with same questions. I am turning 36 in May and still don't feel like having kids.
I said to myself I will wait a bit more. I am not in a hurry. Also saw women can give birth in their 40s or 50s these days, so I don't want to pressure myself. And I also think that even if I won't be able to have my own child I can still adopt.
I kind of feel I would like to be a mom one day, but that day is not now, plus I am super hypochondriac, so I am scared to go through the pregnancy and labour and all this... So, the same as I do with everything in my life... I will go with the flow and not put too much pressure on myself. It's fine that we are the way we are and that we don't feel about having kids (yet) and it's all good and the way it should be I guess Smile
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mk30



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2017 8:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

thank you for your insight Smile it's easy for me to get stressed out about these kinds of things. my mom has been asking me about babies since age 24. -_-
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ninjabirdy



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PostPosted: Sat Mar 11, 2017 7:51 pm    Post subject: mums... Reply with quote

Here I am lucky. She didn't do it until maybe a year ago... But then I told her that she is probably asking me this because she went into retirement and was bored so I suggested her to get a dog Smile Hihi. And they did, so now we have no problems anymore Smile)
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mk30



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PostPosted: Sat Mar 11, 2017 8:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

lol that's great. thanks for the tip! maybe i'll try it with my mom.
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ninjabirdy



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PostPosted: Sat Mar 11, 2017 9:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let me know.... But joke aside, it's not easy having these questions, but I can't force myself, it's just not the right time yet. So all I can do is to try to stay fit and healthy and then we''ll see if/when the mother instinct kicks in:)

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